This review is of the Diaper Dude Grey Courier Messenger III. This bag was given to our blog by the company for the purposes of doing a review.
…& thank god it was!
It was our first day leaving the hospital with the twins after 12 days in the NICU. We pulled up to the house and began to unload, each of us picking up one of the car seats & myself grabbing our then-diaper bag by Happ.
That was when I knew we were in trouble.
We had purchased this particular diaper bag at my wife’s urging back in November. She loved it for style and comfort, and still does to this day.
When I am “being the man” and carrying up the diaper bag as well as a baby, it just isn’t functional. The short strap, perfect for my wife, slides right off my shoulder, down to my wrist where it swings and slaps the car seat while I walk.
We stayed in over the next few weeks.
Fortunately I met The Diaper Dude at a Big City Mom’s Event in March, & I stopped to ask him about his unique brand for dads.
My Dad Days changed forever.
After we connected and he heard about my twins & diaper bag ordeal, The DD (we’re on a nickname basis now) graciously offered me a bag complimentary.
The next week when we took our first road trip, I saw the difference simply walking down to the car.
Maybe it’s a guy thing, maybe it’s a me thing – I cannot find ANYTHING in a woman’s bag!
I remember my mother’s diaper bags for my younger siblings always seeming crowded and stuffed. My wife can blindly distinguish chapstick from lipstick in her purse; I can’t find either, even using my iPhone flashlight.
This bag, for some reason, is oriented to my head and, as simple as it is, everything has its own spot.
The initial hook is of course the Checklist on the inside flap.
Beyond that, could it be that different from a traditional diaper bag?
Insulated pockets on the side hold formula at temp (we use one side for our quick access tube items – sunscreen, sanitizer, lip balm, butt paste).
Three external flaps are perfect for diapers & travel wipes.
Inside, there is a large stuffable compartment; there are also three sub-pockets that are great for keeping accessories readily accessible (phone charger anyone?).
It’s 2017, so of course there is also an additional flap for your iPad. This helps the Diaper Dude Messenger convert to a convenient messenger bag for events even without baby!
If there is one gripe I have, it is that the zippers can come undone on their own sometimes. It has happened to me with main compartment zipper AND the smaller zippers around the various flaps.
On the other hand, when I had my first Public Restroom Changing Table experience, being able to easily rip the bag open with my one free hand came in “handy.”
Since getting this bag, I’ve noticed other dads struggling with their traditional (or even fashionable) diaper bags. Every single time, I male-model my Diaper Dude Messenger & they all echo my sentiments about what a simple notion it is to design a functional bag for dads.
Finally, it must be noted that Diaper Dude is under the True Dude Movement, and 5% of all sales go to support Futures Without Violence, a charitable organization focused on coaching boys into men.
Their Coaching Boys Into Men (CBIM) program provides high school athletic coaches with the resources they need to promote respectful behavior among their players and help prevent relationship abuse, harassment, and sexual assault.
That sounds like #beingagrownman to me, and the perfect bonus for dads who need a functional bag anyway.
Get your Diaper Dude bags & more thru the True Dude website.
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